Is my identity protected?

Yes. We never store or display your phone number.

You pick any display name you want, and a one-way hash is all that connects your account. Your partner never sees your answers. We built it this way because privacy is non-negotiable.

See it: Your number, one way

People asked next

If it’s anonymous, can’t people just trash someone?

“Which means people feel free to say bad shit.”

asked by a senior community member in New York

SceneCheck

There’s nowhere to write it.

the whole answer: If it’s anonymous, can’t people just trash someone?

Can my partner tell what I said about them?

“Then it’s only anonymous to second readers.”

asked by a senior community member in New York

SceneCheck

Sometimes. In a two-person scene, your partner may guess.

the whole answer: Can my partner tell what I said about them?

Does it work at a big party?

“I think the organizer said they’re getting 100+ a night.”

asked by someone returning to the scene, who goes to 100-person parties

SceneCheck

Pairing works by QR code, a spoken passphrase or a link.

the whole answer: Does it work at a big party?

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