If it’s anonymous, can’t people just trash someone?

Nobody types a review. Partners answer structured questions about communication, boundaries and safety: yes, no or n/a.

One no is diluted as more people leave feedback, and it fades with age. The same no, scene after scene, caps the score.

See the math

One red flag takes 3 points off. Across 30 scenes it’s diluted, and it fades with age. The same no, scene after scene, would cap the score.

Three red flags in 5 scenes make a pattern, so the score is capped at 46. Good feedback doesn’t average a pattern away.

A person can still answer no when the honest answer was yes. That’s why one answer moves a score a little and a pattern moves it a lot.

“Oh that’s interesting and sounds like a shit show popularity contest just waiting to happen.”

asked by a senior community member in New York

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Popularity can’t buy a score, and one grudge can’t sink one.

“Then it’s only anonymous to second readers.”

asked by a senior community member in New York

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Sometimes. In a two-person scene, your partner may guess.

“Why is your score only 70? Oh 88. Why are there different scores?”

asked by a senior community member in New York

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There’s one scene score. The other numbers show what it’s made of.

A person reads every question. If we answer yours here, we quote you by role, never by name, and only if you say yes.